[instiz] EVERYONE, HOW WAS YOUR FIRST BREAK UP?

I was in my mid-twenties and had my first relationship late. Maybe it’s because I really liked him, but my first breakup was so hard… It was too hard

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The moment I felt the weight lifted a bit, I immediately got a lump in my throat again. This happened over and over again for a week, so people started worrying about me,,ㅠ

Am I an unusual case? Was everyone’s first breakup difficult? When will it get better…

1. I was just dazed at first…. It feels like a huge chunk of my heart became empty, but it’s been a month and I don’t feel anything anymore 

2. It’s been 6 months and not I’m fine. At first, whenever he reached out, I’d always reply. But now I don’t feel the need to anymore

3. I cried for an entire month, and I lost 7 kg because I didn’t feel hungry… Before that, I was 170cm and 63kg, but now that I’ve aged, I can’t really use my break ups to diet anymore ..ㅋㅋ Just find yourself some hobby and take some painkillers to go through this 

4. In contrast to this, I felt so so liberated. It’s like I was almost excited for it… I didn’t have any lingering feelings and I didn’t need any closure…

5. After my 5th break up, I realized that he cheated, so I got over him after a week… It’s a fact that you grow more and more numb to it 

6. I was sobbing just crossing the street

7. I was so hard… I lost so much weight and my health also got poorㅋㅋㅋ ㅠㅠ 

8. I lost so much weight and I was crying in the bus all the time ㅋㅋㅋㅋ ㅠㅠㅠ And I felt like all the songs’ lyrics were talking about me 

9. It was too hard, I lost so much weight, I was crying on the streets, while listening to songs, while taking the bus 

10. Me too I broke up with him 2 days ago ㅠㅠㅋㅋㅋㅋ 

But it was my first break up, so I didn’t know what to do and just ended… And now I’m regretting it… I’m thinking I should’ve held onto him… ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ It’s been 2 days, I’m not sleeping and I can’t eat