Are there any women who have never experienced s*** crimes such as SH, SA, etc.?
I graduated from an all-girls middle school and all-girls high school and married my husband, who was my first boyfriend, right after graduation, so I had little contact with men in my life.
When I was in the lower grades of elementary school, my older brother touched my g****tals at an academy, my cousin pulled down my panties and looked at me (later, my family caught him and beat him up), when I was in high school, a barbarian man saw me in an alley and started m*****bating, and when I was working part-time in college. The owner of the place kept putting his arm on my chest as he passed by, etc… I can’t even remember every single instance.
While I was talking with my husband about children’s education, he started talking about s***** crimes as if it were someone else’s problem.
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1. [+430, -9]
But men really don’t know. Almost no woman has never experienced s*** crimes. Even if you exclude things like verbal harassment, leering, or the kind of harmless play from childhood, it’s still the case. I know there are more men who do not commit s*** crimes than those who do, and that’s very obvious. It’s not easy to commit a s*** crime since it could ruin one’s life if caught. So why is it that when women say they’ve almost all experienced sexual crimes, people just brush it off? Why do people disbelieve and even empathize with the perpetrators? I wonder if it’s because they themselves have these urges but are just restraining themselves
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It’s just because women rather not mention it, but everyone has. That’s why I’m worried for my daughter ㅠ
3. [+282, -7]
I’m 20 years old, and when I talk to my friends, they all seem to have been victims of at least one s** crime, big or small… A man who came into the bathroom and took off his pants, a man who sat next to them on the bus and covered himself with a bag and rubbed their thighs, a swimming teacher who made them sit on his lap and groped them when they were in elementary school… . Most of my friends suffered from things like that when they were in elementary school or middle school. Guys don’t know anything about this, right? So rather, they’re telling us to not treat them like criminals
4. [+228, -4]
When women were in elementary school, wasn’t there always one or two boys who touched your breasts? A teacher poking me in the chest with his finger because I didn’t have my name tag… The most terrifying thing I remember is a f*cker unzipping my jeans while I was stuck between people in a crowded subway and I couldn’t move…
5. [+218, -7]
Is there any woman who hasn’t been SA-ed in her life? The first memory of SA I remember was when I was in elementary school, and my swimming teacher would pull me up every time I turned around and kept biting my ear. The Taekwondo director lined up the girls and kissed them on the cheek. When I was in middle school, a boy next door to me, an elementary school boy, pretended to be cleaning with his arms while we were watching TV together, and he gently rubbed my breasts. At first, I thought he was a guy with no s***** concept, so I avoided him, but it happened several times and I realized it. Because he was younger than me, I couldn’t say anything, not even to my parents. When I was in college, I drank a lot once, and a male sunbae touched my waist and butt, thinking I passed out. The psychology instructor f*cker said that his wife was boring so let’s date every time I went to his class. I tried to report him, but I couldn’t because my sunbaes stopped me saying it would be useless. When I was in college, I was also exposed to molas. I found out because someone who was following behind told me about it. Talking about it makes me want to destroy everything.
